The 6 Externalized Loci (MAWLTS)
- Meaning: Sought through Achievement rather than Presence. (“I matter only if I produce.”)
- Awe: Sought through Novelty/Status rather than Wonder. (“I am only amazed by the extraordinary, not the ordinary.”)
- Worth: Sought through Validation rather than Being. (“I am good only if they say I am.”)
- Love: Sought through Performance rather than Connection. (“I am lovable only if I am useful/perfect.”)
- Truth: Sought through Consensus rather than Insight. (“Truth is what the group agrees on.”)
- Sovereignty: Sought through Control rather than KNOWING you are whole and complete from within